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The Power of Non-Polarity

February 1, 2016 — 3 Comments

Anger, rage, fury, hate, judgment, and our love of trauma and drama and separation are the greatest toxic wastes on the planet. And, it’s the toxic waste we could most easily change – if we choose to.

But ONLY if we choose to.

If we want to change the world, we need to stop our reliance on such harsh, outdated modes of beingness. Unless we start asking some different questions, we don’t have a chance to fundamentally change the way we function on this planet with each other.

So what’s the antidote to the anger, rage, fury, hate, judgment, and separation?

Consciousness, non-polarity, and the willingness to change and eliminate the separation that you believe defines you.

When I watched the video of this amazing man, Antoine Leiris, who lost his wife in the Paris attacks, I was inspired again by the power of not choosing ‘sides’, of not hating, and of not choosing anger. Instead as Antoine says, he and his 10 month-old son, choosing happiness instead of hate, is more powerful than all the world’s armies.

That is the power of non-polarity.

Watch Antoine’s reading his letter, his tribute to his wife, in the short video below.


What if something completely different is possible?

For all of us? With all of us. Together?

We no longer have to function according to the rules of this reality, because doing so has created the seemingly impossible mess we are currently in. We require something different.


Please know, it is actually a choice to not be conscious and to stay in polarity. Just as it is a choice to be conscious, to be aware and to choose the power and potency of non-polarity.

What would you like to choose?


This Past Year …

April 24, 2015 — 2 Comments

Think about your life one year ago … has anything changed? Is anything different? What seems possible now that didn’t seem possible before?

What have you seen change in the last year that has given you a sense of hope, a sense possibilities and a sense of the awareness that consciousness is truly becoming more available?

The way it works is, consciousness begets consciousness. Ever notice?

The more consciousness you choose, the more the world changes around you.

Here’s a video from me with more on this …

So my beautiful friends …

What if YOU ARE integral to the possibilities of the entire planet?

What would you have to choose, right now, to create a greater change in the world over the next year than anything that has ever been seen before? Is now the time?

Only you know! 🙂


P.S. Here’s the blog & article “Consciousness, The New Mainstream” I referenced in the video, click here!

Dan Gilbert gives a TedTalk on the phenomenon of how we change throughout our lifetime and how we tend to underestimate the amount of change we will make in the future. He calls for the “end of history illusion,” where we somehow imagine that the person we are right now is the person we’ll be for the rest of time.

Hint: that’s not the case!

“Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished.. The person you are right now is as transient, as fleeting and as temporary as all the people you’ve ever been. The one constant in our life is change.

What would it be like to acknowledge that we create our future selves with every choice we make?

Ever have something you’ve been pondering…like, “hmmm this thing isn’t really working for me. I think I’d like to make a change.

When we do that, it’s ok. It kinda works…

Then we have the other times – the times when you demand: “no matter what it looks like, no matter what it takes, no matter what it changes in my life – this thing has got to change!

How quickly did that change occur? Pretty instantaneously, right?

Here’s an audio clip from a recent Being You Taster Class on this difference and how to use it to work for you!

What if you are the one creating your life?

What are you ready to demand if if you knew it would actually show up?


If money was no object…what would you choose?

By the one and only, Alan Watts.

Here in our world, there is meanness. There are judgments. There are acts of violence and evil and hatred.

It’s not necessarily what we’d like, but it does exist.

My question to you is:

Are you willing to go beyond this?

Do you know that kindness, caring, and gratitude are energies that you can choose at any moment? That’s right, you can choose.

Do you realize that choosing to go beyond the value of judgment changes the world?

Here’s another question for you:

What gift are you that you have not been acknowledging?

My target is for you to realize the gift you are. Here’s an audio clip I hope contributes to that, even just for today:

– Dain

“Chocolate Bar” Living

January 23, 2014 — 1 Comment

When Dylan learned that his best friend was sick, he knew he wanted to do something to help. He went to his room and emerged a few hours later with a hand-written book. Chocolate bar, the name of the book, according to Dylan, means really awesome.

Dylan has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars so far; which is more money for research on his friend’s rare liver condition than any other organization, grant or charity. He’s 6 years-old.

What would happen if we all chose to be this tenacious in the way we care?