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Here’s a very simple tool to find out everything that’s true for you and everything that’s not!

You’ll start knowing instantly when something will work for you and can make your life greater, and then you can choose accordingly.

Welcome to making choices and decisions with ease!

Here’s the tool – Light or Heavy: Something that is true for you will always make you feel lighter, something that’s a lie will always make you feel heavier.

What if it’s time to come out of the wrongness of us, for anything we’ve ever chosen or done?


What if now is the time to have the lightness of what’s true for us and not have to believe someone else is wrong if we choose something different?

Most people function in their lives from a lot of conclusions.

For example the conclusion that, ‘These are the only possibilities I have; these are the possibilities I don’t have.’

What if instead of functioning from conclusion, you could use questions to change anything in your life that is not working?

If you want to change it all, start living as the question. For anything you’d like to change, ask a question. It can be as simple as ‘What’s it going to take to change this?’ or ‘How does it get any better than this?’

By asking questions, you’ll start to see things change around you and recognize change is actually possible. Because you see things change, you can start to have a sense of hope and possibility.

What if you can change anything?

Watch this video for 4 questions that you can use anytime, for whenever anything comes up and you feel stuck – even for the things you think you cannot change.

Your life will start to show up in magical ways when you start to live as the question.

Are you ready my friends?

Hacking This Reality

August 29, 2016 — 2 Comments

You may have heard the term ‘hacking’ come up recently. Whether it’s computer-hacking, bio-hacking, life-hacking, it seems to be around in a lot of conversations.

So, what is hacking?…

I heard one of my favorite descriptions as I watched the TED talk below with teenager Logan LaPlante, as he described hackers as “innovators – people who challenge and change the systems to make them work different and to make them work better.”

Have you ever wanted to ‘hack’ your life? Hack this reality? Find a way to just make it work better?

This reality basically tells us that if we grow up, go to school, find a job and get married, then we’ll be happy. Yet nothing in this reality is about creating, supporting and choosing that happiness.

We’re often so focused on everything we are doing in life, and looking to that to make it better. What if it’s less about doing and more about being?

As Logan mentions in his talk, all kids get asked ‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ And us adults expect an answer like ‘a doctor’, ‘a chemist’ or some other job. But what if life wasn’t about doing, what if it’s more about being? And about being happy?

Watch the video below as Logan talks about how to be happy and healthy and how “having the hacker mindset can change the world”.

Most kids truly are just asking to be happy, healthy, not bullied and loved for who they are. What if that were the priority of this reality?

What can you BE, choose, do and create to hack this reality and change the systems into what you know is possible?

I recently had a google hangout with a brilliant teenager from Delhi, India about many of the topics kids and teenagers are looking at today – from leadership, to happiness, to bullying, to how to be you no matter what is going on around you.

You can watch the replay of our talk below for more tools and inspiration for knowing it IS possible to be different and to hack this reality!

What if you didn’t have to be at the effect of this reality anymore? What if you could now choose to affect this reality and change it completely? What else could possible in your life if you truly chose to be you?

Thank you for YOU and for being willing to have something different!

Until next time my friends,

Dain

PS – I’m facilitating a telecall on Sept 9th on the topic “What If Your Kids Are Secretly Happy But Nobody Knows How To Bring it Out? – What if …?” as part of a larger 6-part tele-series – ‘Dealing With Difficult Kids’. If you get this may be a contribution to you or the people and children around you, you can click HERE to learn more!

Hey my beautiful brothers and sisters,

Please know there is hope.
There is always hope.
Never give up, never give in and never quit.

You are far too valuable to the world.

15 years ago, I made a choice to stay and it was the greatest choice I could have ever made.

The tools and the help are available to change everything.

You are not alone.

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P.S. If you like, you can download the intro & first chapter of my book for free HERE, an innovative toolbox for the seekers of the world. 🙂

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