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What do you need? Really.

Money? Food? A roof over your head?

To be loved? To be seen? To be appreciated?

To reach your goals? To be successful? To “make it”?

What if this whole need thing is just an… invention? A Catch 22 so big that we can’t even see it anymore?

Imagine for a moment that you had no needs of your partner? Or children? Or parents? Or friends?

Or they of you.

What if you didn’t have to spend any thoughts or energy to make sure you satisfied their needs, or that they satisfied yours?

How much time would you have? And freedom? And joy? And gratitude.

Did you watch the video?

Well, if any of that made you lighter, consider choosing to run this clearing 30 times a day for 30 days: What invention am I using to create the needs I am choosing?

Yes, choosing. The antidote to need.

Dain

How big are you willing to be with your family? 

How uncomfortable are you willing to make them by going beyond all the roles you’ve been given and bought as true?

How much space are you willing to invite them to by not turning yourself down?

How much change are you willing to create by just being…you?

Please know, some of you would probably prefer going head to head with an angry lion than rocking the boat called FAMILY.

Here is a video that could assist, straight from a house full of family:

It is just a choice. However, once you get started, it could be the greatest of gifts, for everyone around. 

What if this is what everyone has been waiting for? 

What if there is something amazingly different possible with family? In total allowance, trust, vulnerability, gratitude, honor…and JOY?

Just saying…

You, my friend are the invitation. 

Dain

PS. Oh, and really isn’t just about Christmas, of course… These questions and tools are for anyone who has, have had or know a family, and run into them from time to time!