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You, my friend, are way more psychic than you ever wanted to know! You’re actually like a big radio receiver and you pick up everything that goes on around you.

What if I told you that 98% of your thoughts, feelings and emotions actually don’t belong to you? They’re not yours! They’re just something you are aware of.

So any time you get heavy, try asking this: Who does this belong to? If whatever thought, feeling or emotion you have lightens up at all or go away, they weren’t yours in the first place. Now, you can’t actually change something that isn’t yours. So just return them to sender and start perceiving what is true for you.


What would your life and reality be like if you stopped judging you? What if you are one of the greatest rightnesses the world has ever seen? What if everything you know is possible on those light happy mornings actually…is?

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Here’s a very simple tool to find out everything that’s true for you and everything that’s not!

You’ll start knowing instantly when something will work for you and can make your life greater, and then you can choose accordingly.

Welcome to making choices and decisions with ease!

Here’s the tool – Light or Heavy: Something that is true for you will always make you feel lighter, something that’s a lie will always make you feel heavier.

What if it’s time to come out of the wrongness of us, for anything we’ve ever chosen or done?


What if now is the time to have the lightness of what’s true for us and not have to believe someone else is wrong if we choose something different?

Hacking This Reality

August 29, 2016 — 3 Comments

You may have heard the term ‘hacking’ come up recently. Whether it’s computer-hacking, bio-hacking, life-hacking, it seems to be around in a lot of conversations.

So, what is hacking?…

I heard one of my favorite descriptions as I watched the TED talk below with teenager Logan LaPlante, as he described hackers as “innovators – people who challenge and change the systems to make them work different and to make them work better.”

Have you ever wanted to ‘hack’ your life? Hack this reality? Find a way to just make it work better?

This reality basically tells us that if we grow up, go to school, find a job and get married, then we’ll be happy. Yet nothing in this reality is about creating, supporting and choosing that happiness.

We’re often so focused on everything we are doing in life, and looking to that to make it better. What if it’s less about doing and more about being?

As Logan mentions in his talk, all kids get asked ‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ And us adults expect an answer like ‘a doctor’, ‘a chemist’ or some other job. But what if life wasn’t about doing, what if it’s more about being? And about being happy?

Watch the video below as Logan talks about how to be happy and healthy and how “having the hacker mindset can change the world”.

Most kids truly are just asking to be happy, healthy, not bullied and loved for who they are. What if that were the priority of this reality?

What can you BE, choose, do and create to hack this reality and change the systems into what you know is possible?

I recently had a google hangout with a brilliant teenager from Delhi, India about many of the topics kids and teenagers are looking at today – from leadership, to happiness, to bullying, to how to be you no matter what is going on around you.

You can watch the replay of our talk below for more tools and inspiration for knowing it IS possible to be different and to hack this reality!

What if you didn’t have to be at the effect of this reality anymore? What if you could now choose to affect this reality and change it completely? What else could possible in your life if you truly chose to be you?

Thank you for YOU and for being willing to have something different!

Until next time my friends,

Dain

PS – I’m facilitating a telecall on Sept 9th on the topic “What If Your Kids Are Secretly Happy But Nobody Knows How To Bring it Out? – What if …?” as part of a larger 6-part tele-series – ‘Dealing With Difficult Kids’. If you get this may be a contribution to you or the people and children around you, you can click HERE to learn more!

Ease, Joy and Glory

June 10, 2016 — 8 Comments

The first time I heard the mantra of Access, I wanted to KILL!

There was this small ad in the local paper that read: “All of Life Comes To Me with Ease and Joy and Glory. Call Shannon”

I just wanted to tear the newspaper apart — Ease, Joy and Glory!?!? My life seemed to be everything BUT that. Argh!

Anyhow, I had learned that when I resisted something that much, there was always a possibility for greater beyond it.

So I did call. And that was the start of a journey that has changed my whole life…

Here is the thing: Along the way, I seemed to have forgotten how powerful that mantra really is.

Would you be willing to come along to Santa Barbara and let yourself be re-introduced to these 12 words?

Please know, the three first words are crucial: All. Of. Life. 

EVERYTHING — the good, the bad, and the ugly — comes to us with ease and joy and glory.

Therein lies the secret.

Therein lies the peace.

All of Life Comes To Me with Ease and Joy and Glory.

Dain

PS – Choose an area of your life that you’d like to change with ease – body, money, relationship, anything! Would you like to change it together? I’ve created a new online 21 day program – The 10 Keys to Total Freedom to give you even more tools to create the life you know is possible. Click here to learn more about the course!

Have you ever felt dissatisfied? Are you always wanting more and do you know that it’s possible?

What if that wasn’t a wrongness? What if that ache of dissatisfaction is a gift and capacity? What if that is what drives your life forward?

What if dissatisfaction is what shows up when you know there is a possibility that you could be choosing — and haven’t yet?

In South Africa, my friend Gary Douglas and I recorded a special video about the hidden gift behind the dissatisfaction…

Would you like to know more? Click on the video below!

If you start to get the greatness of you, and your dissatisfaction, things will get better not only for you, but for all of us!

What if you are the gift, the possibility and the change this world requires my friend?

Hope to see you somewhere in the world soon, 🙂

Dain

PS – Gary Douglas & I will be facilitating an evening class, Losing the Ache of Dissatisfaction, March 10th live in Paris and livestreamed online. Would you like to join us? Click HERE to sign up!

The Power of Non-Polarity

February 1, 2016 — 3 Comments

Anger, rage, fury, hate, judgment, and our love of trauma and drama and separation are the greatest toxic wastes on the planet. And, it’s the toxic waste we could most easily change – if we choose to.

But ONLY if we choose to.

If we want to change the world, we need to stop our reliance on such harsh, outdated modes of beingness. Unless we start asking some different questions, we don’t have a chance to fundamentally change the way we function on this planet with each other.

So what’s the antidote to the anger, rage, fury, hate, judgment, and separation?

Consciousness, non-polarity, and the willingness to change and eliminate the separation that you believe defines you.

When I watched the video of this amazing man, Antoine Leiris, who lost his wife in the Paris attacks, I was inspired again by the power of not choosing ‘sides’, of not hating, and of not choosing anger. Instead as Antoine says, he and his 10 month-old son, choosing happiness instead of hate, is more powerful than all the world’s armies.

That is the power of non-polarity.

Watch Antoine’s reading his letter, his tribute to his wife, in the short video below.

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What if something completely different is possible?

For all of us? With all of us. Together?

We no longer have to function according to the rules of this reality, because doing so has created the seemingly impossible mess we are currently in. We require something different.

Now.

Please know, it is actually a choice to not be conscious and to stay in polarity. Just as it is a choice to be conscious, to be aware and to choose the power and potency of non-polarity.

What would you like to choose?

Dain

Earth is Our Home

November 18, 2015 — 2 Comments

Yes, the Earth is big. Probably way bigger than any of us can imagine… Just tap into the ever-reaching mountains touching the heavens … the blue, bottomless ocean …  and the softest sand dancing with the dunes of the desert.

If there is one thing I would like you to get from this video, it is that: The Earth is big. And we all share it.

It is our home. 

And yes, I only mention the Paris attacks in this video. I am not even trying to get the list right. It is too long. Too many beautiful amazing places on Earth have been hit by terrorism. Beirut, Nairobi, New York, Moscow… What occurs for one of us occurs for all of us!

It is time for change. 

So I am using Paris to show you something about you. You, my friend, have a choice. 

You have a choice of who you be in the face of tragedy.

You have a choice of you would like to be on this Earth.

Will you go for the trauma and drama — or will you be the possibility of something completely different?

Is now the time?

Click below to watch the video.

Be you.

Dain

PS. I wrote an article for the Huffington Post called ‘Not on Our Watch’. If you would like to explore what Tomorrowland could truly be like, go HERE to read it.

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